The Emotional and Financial Strain of Divorce
Managing finances is one of the most significant challenges for men during and after divorce. Beyond
the costs associated with the divorce process, men may have to pay spousal and child support,
straining their finances, especially if they were the primary breadwinner. Additionally, men must find a
new place to live and cover the expenses of setting up a new household. This financial burden can be
overwhelming, but a CDLP® can help men understand their financial options and make informed
decisions to secure their financial future. By working with a CDLP®, men can navigate the financial
challenges of divorce and develop a solid plan for their future.
Navigating Custody and Housing Challenges
Child custody and visitation arrangements are another major struggle. Men often have to fight for fair
custody arrangements, which can be emotionally draining and financially costly. Finding stable and
affordable housing is also crucial. Divorce often necessitates a move, meaning securing a new home
that meets their children's needs. This can be challenging, especially in areas with high housing costs.
The need to furnish a new home and manage moving expenses further strains financial resources,
leading to feelings of insecurity and anxiety, compounding the emotional stress of the divorce process.
NAVIGATING THE COMPLEX
JOURNEY OF DIVORCE:
Divorce is an emotionally and financially draining
process for men, often leading to the loss of a
partner, home, and possibly even custody of
children.
Navigating
the
legal
system
and
negotiating a fair settlement can be daunting.
Societal expectations to remain strong and stoic
during this challenging time can make it harder for
men to express emotions and seek support. These
unique struggles complicate the divorce process for
men. However, with the help of a Certified Divorce
Lending Professional (CDLP®), men can find the
guidance and support they need to navigate this
difficult time.
CHALLENGES AND FINANCIAL STRUGGLES FOR MEN
Written by Jody Bruns, President Divorce Lending Association
05 DIVORCE REAL ESTATE & MORTGAGE JOURNAL